“The more I let go of old messages ― installed early on by well-meaning but ill-informed advisers ― that sex is “bad,” the more free I am to accept who I am as an embodied erotic being.” He also says that it gets better with age only because you’re more willing to let go of the preconceived notions of sex and take pleasure from the fact that it feels good. Self is also of the opinion that the older you get, the more you are able to enjoy sex, and he’s currently having the best sex of his life.
a twelve-year break from any filmmaking, and then you went back to porn in 2002. May their efforts flourish in bringing the guilty ones to justice! But for those who have grown up in a sex-suppressive society where everything outside conventional norms/mores is labelled “porn” in order to suppress it - and who, therefore, find a kind of titillation in being “outside the norm” of suppression - I’m happy to wear the label.” Interviews with Gay Horror Filmmakers, Actors, and Authors Sean Abley. Self also says that he’s happy to wear the label of a porn star at his age but he does have some reservations about the word ‘porn.’ “I support those who are exerting great effort to bring to justice those who are trapping and trafficking helpless persons for (fraudulent) erotic gratification.
